I’m the kind of person a lot of neurotypical people struggle a lot with. Because unless it is the intent, as in a joke or whatever, I don’t speak or write in a way where you get anything useful from reading between the lines.

Especially when it is in writing.

Plus I will typically sensor myself a lot either because of clarity or avoid getting into trouble. If I don’t it either means I’m impulsive or more likely that I trust the people present.

Anyways.

Here is a thing that always drive me nuts that so many people get mixed up: the difference between referring to a person versus something a person did.

If I say something you did was dumb, does not mean I think you are dumb.